Do you ever find yourself standing in your wardrobe, wondering, Why does it feel like I have to choose between looking fun and feeling comfortable? If you’re nodding, you’re not alone—and it’s not your fault. For decades, women have been taught to prioritise either appearance or practicality. We’ve internalised the idea that style and comfort…
Reader Question: I wonder what thoughts you have on double denim for those of us in our 60s whose age group invented and have worn the trend days in days gone by Is it something we can pull off or will we be perceived as too try hard i love denim and wear it almost…
Dressing to create an illusion around the shape of your body, is something we tend to think as a modern invention, yet even the Victorians were partial to using clothing to create illusions about their body shape to create the ideal shape of the day (an hourglass with a small waist). I found this Instagram…
Let’s be honest: getting dressed shouldn’t feel like a battle—and yet, for so many of us, it does. Especially when your wardrobe feels chaotic, your body has changed, and you’re short on time (and patience). The good news? Style doesn’t have to be hard. In fact, with the right knowledge and systems, it can become…
In This Video Do you have a non-model body that means finding clothes to fit and flatter is hard? You’re not alone. 0:10 I am basically underweight by 10 pounds so I have extremely skinny legs and a type 2 diabetic belly that’s always bloated, I struggle figuring out what to wear 2:13 My…
If you’ve ever stood in front of a wardrobe full of clothes thinking, “Why don’t I have anything to wear?” —you’re not alone. Recently, a reader emailed me and said “I’d love some help with getting my wardrobe more organized and stop buying clothes that don’t suit me. I tend to admire certain styles on…
In This Video 0:08 when I wear casual clothes I look like I’m not trying – I want to look more put together 3:28 I need to revamp my style post double mastectomy. So my body has completely changed shape. I’m also 63 and moving into a new season of my life and need to…
In This Video 0:08 I struggle with smart casual dressing and I want to have more confidence and feel good. 5:18 I find prints tricky, I’m not sure about finding my preferred shapes and colours when current trends don’t reflect them. My daughter says I should just wear solid colours and neutrals, but I…
In this Video 0:08 I’d love some help with getting my wardrobe more organised and stop buying clothes that don’t suit me – I tend to admire certain styles on others but they don’t feel like me – what’s the solution? 4:04 How can I get ready in under 15 minutes per day and…
If you’ve ever stood in front of the mirror wondering how to make a caramel-toned (or camel) jacket work with your body, lifestyle (and your flats because comfort is key to feeling stylish), you’re not alone. In fact, this was one of the questions I got in my recent 7 Steps to Style members Q&A…
I was recently asked by one of my 7 Steps to Style program members to give some tips on how to style a chambray shirt in a more feminine, elegant way. Chambray shirts have long been a wardrobe staple—soft, breathable, and that perfect shade of relaxed blue. But let’s be honest: while they’re incredibly versatile,…
In This Video 0.07 My challenge is finding the right colours for my summer wardrobe when they aren’t current fashions 2.34 How do I incorporate my essence by John Kitchener into my style relating to my 8 shape body? When I do personality quizzes I get more Classic than what I got with Kitchener which…
Navy is a colour that seems to confuse a lot of people. It’s the colour I get asked the most questions about, and I’ve written a bunch of blog posts about it in the past. But since it’s back in fashion again this season, and I was asked a question about it in my 7 Steps…
In This Video 0.08 – The thing that holds me back from working on my style is time! Five years of being a full-time caregiver have just ended and I am trying to put my life back together. By necessity, I fell into lots of bad personal care habits and now I would like to…
Have you ever considered changing your hair colour but hesitated because you feared high maintenance, costly salon visits, or ending up with a shade that just doesn’t suit you? Choosing a flattering hair colour doesn’t have to be complicated—especially when you use your personal colour palette as a guide. Start with Your Colour…
Have you ever stood in front of your wardrobe feeling completely uninspired? Do you find yourself wearing the same outfits on repeat, not because you love them, but because you don’t know what else to wear? If you’ve ever wondered why style feels so much harder than it should, you’re not alone. Many women—especially those…
You will hear many stylish people tell you that you have to be born with style. Some people have it, and others just don’t (and never will). Well, if you know me (if you’ve spent any time here on the blog), you’ll know that I wasn’t born with style; I’ve just spent a year learning…
Happy New Year! Every year seems to go faster, the older I get. And each year there are things I hope will happen along with things I’d like to accomplish. Not sure if you’re the same, but I’m betting I’m not alone! The new year has been psychologically shown to be a good time for…
Leading up to the new year, I spend some time thinking about my “word of the year” or “focus word” that I will use as a guide to help me make decisions for the forthcoming year. It’s much better than New Year resolutions which are mostly broken within the month of January. Instead by having…
Accessories are the icing on your sartorial cake. They can easily elevate your outfit, give interest and detail, and show off your unique personality. This is why I love them so much. Handbags are an accessory that you are more likely to have fewer of in your wardrobe and tend to use the same one…
It’s kind of hard to believe that Pantone had decided that a brown is to be 2025’s colour of the year, yet in some ways, I’m not surprised. Over the past decade-plus years, brown had gone out of fashion and greys have been the trend (you see this a lot in interior decorating). This past…
