You know the outfit. The jeans that always fit, the tee or jumper that goes with everything, the one you reach for without properly looking at it because your hand already knows where it lives in the wardrobe. On the mornings you’re rushed, tired or simply not up for a decision, it feels like the…
The Difference Between Wearing Clothes and Wearing Your Clothes Nothing is actually wrong. The fit works, the colours coordinate, and everything is technically doing its job. Yet when you look in the mirror, something feels a little absent. The clothes are there. You aren’t quite there yet. You haven’t done anything wrong. You’ve just done…
Ask most women what counts as “being creative”, and you’ll get the same short list. Painting. Writing. Playing Music. Maybe baking, if we’re being generous. Getting dressed doesn’t make the cut. It sits filed away under admin or as a daily chore, somewhere between unloading the dishwasher and replying to emails you’ve been avoiding. I’d…
Have you ever noticed that there are some pieces in your wardrobe that just feel like you? You put them on, and somehow the outfit falls into place. You feel more comfortable, more confident, more recognisable to yourself. It may not even be dramatic. A favourite jacket shape. A particular colour. A print you keep…
A reader wrote to me and said, “My question is, how do I build a wardrobe of outfits instead of just basics?” And I love this question because it gets to the heart of why so many intelligent, capable women open their wardrobes and think, I have plenty of clothes, so why do I feel like…
In This Video 0:10 I have too many clothes, and I love them all. I need to donate more and can’t seem to cull them out. How Many Clothes Do You Need in Your Wardrobe? Discover The Average Lifespan of Clothes and What You Keep Longest Even Though You Don’t Wear It Overstuffed, Overwhelmed,…
If you’ve ever bought something that looked amazing in the store… only to find it sitting in your wardrobe unworn, you’re not alone. In fact, research shows most of us only wear about 10-20% of our clothes 80% of the time. The rest? Guilt, clutter, and wasted money. But it doesn’t have to be that…
Many women tell me that they’re hesitant about adding colour to an outfit, sticking with all neutrals because it feels safer, and they’re unsure how to mix colours together successfully, so they avoid it altogether. In honour and memory of one of our brilliant 7 Steps to Style members, Lynne, who sadly lost her battle…
Have you ever put on a casual outfit and felt…well, invisible? Like you’ve gone from “put together professional” to “I gave up today”? You’re not alone. A lovely reader recently shared this exact frustration with me: “When I wear casual clothes, I look like I’m not trying. I want to look more put together.” It’s…
In This Video 0.08 How do I make my acne look less obvious? Your Skin is a Public Experience What You Must Know About Choosing Prints for Patterned Skin Your Skin is a Public Experience Want to Avoid Getting Wrinkles? You Need a Sun Smart Strategy 2.36 How do I look modern without wearing black,…
A reader recently asked me a great question: “I love feminine and romantic styles of clothes, but I’m really low-maintenance. How can I incorporate these together when I feel like they’re opposites?” This is such a common concern, especially for women who are reconnecting with their style later in life. There’s a belief that…
Smart casual. Two little words that somehow manage to cause a whole lot of confusion. If you’re like Rebecca—a woman who’s intelligent, accomplished, and completely baffled by what “smart casual” actually means—you’re not alone. This is one of the most common style struggles I hear from my clients. And it’s no wonder. The term is…
Let’s be honest: getting dressed shouldn’t feel like a battle—and yet, for so many of us, it does. Especially when your wardrobe feels chaotic, your body has changed, and you’re short on time (and patience). The good news? Style doesn’t have to be hard. In fact, with the right knowledge and systems, it can become…
How to Choose and Style a Striped Shirt Based on Your Personality Styling striped shirts by personality dressing style is a fun and expressive way to take a classic wardrobe piece and make it completely your own. Striped shirts may be timeless, but that doesn’t mean they need to look identical on everyone. By aligning…
If you’ve ever stood in front of the mirror wondering how to make a caramel-toned (or camel) jacket work with your body, lifestyle (and your flats because comfort is key to feeling stylish), you’re not alone. In fact, this was one of the questions I got in my recent 7 Steps to Style members Q&A…
I was recently asked by one of my 7 Steps to Style program members to give some tips on how to style a chambray shirt in a more feminine, elegant way. Chambray shirts have long been a wardrobe staple—soft, breathable, and that perfect shade of relaxed blue. But let’s be honest: while they’re incredibly versatile,…
Accessories are the magic wands of your wardrobe. If you’ve ever wondered how to use accessories along with fabric choices to change the tone of your outfit, you’re in the right place. The right styling swaps can take an outfit from casual to elegant, edgy to polished, or playful to professional—without buying an entirely new…
Looking for winter evening outfit ideas that feel stylish, elegant, and warm—without defaulting to black? For some it can be tricky to find winter outfits that feel as put-together as your summer wardrobe, but with a few key styling tips, you can create polished, comfortable looks that stand out in the colder months. If you…
We’ve all heard them—those so-called “fashion rules” that claim to dictate what we should and shouldn’t wear. “Don’t mix black and navy.” “Only wear certain colours at certain ages.” “Avoid horizontal stripes if you’re not a size 8.” But as fashion continues to evolve, so too should our approach to these outdated style limitations. After…
Do you ever find yourself drawn to bold, eye-catching pieces, only to struggle with how to make them work together in an outfit? You’re not alone! Many of us love a statement piece—what I like to call a “hero” piece—but the question remains: how to style statement pieces in a way that feels cohesive? The…
When we think about building a stylish wardrobe, most of us focus on colour, fit, and shape. But there’s another often-overlooked element that can truly transform an outfit—the importance of texture in fashion. The fabrics you choose are just as important as the colours or cuts, adding depth and interest to even the simplest of…
