The question came from Penny, but it’s one I hear time and time again: “I struggle with intimidation and a nonapproachable effect. I’m tall, high contrast, and have a classic, dramatic look. Lately I’ve been dressing in muted tones and low contrast to seem more approachable – but it feels less like me.” First, let…
How to Stay True to Your Flamboyant Style When You’re a Busy Mom One of my readers asked a powerful question that so many women quietly wrestle with: “How do I balance my natural flamboyance with the practicalities of being a mom of four?” Here’s the truth: no rule says motherhood and style expression are…
How to Organise Your Wardrobe So the Perfect Outfit Is Always Within Reach A lovely reader asked, “How can I organise my closet so the perfect outfit is always at my fingertips?” Closets are fascinating because how you organise yours depends so much on your personal organising style. But there are a few principles…
In This Video 0:08 I’ve just spent yesterday sorting & curating my wardrobe. I would like to be able to mix & match my clothes. I love wearing autumn colours & find I have too much black (believing it would make me look slimmer). How do I weed the black out of my wardrobe and…
There’s a moment many of us know well: standing in front of the mirror, already tired, maybe even sad, and feeling like whatever we throw on our body won’t help us feel any better. If anything, it might make things worse. Donna asked a powerful question recently:“What are some tips to look stylish on days…
How to Find Clothes That Fit Your Body (Without the Frustration) If you’ve ever stood in a change room surrounded by rejected piles of clothes, you are not alone. Most women over 40 tell me they feel frustrated trying to find garments that fit well and flatter their shape. The good news? It’s not your…
How to Confidently Mix Colours and Patterns Without the Overwhelm Do you ever open your wardrobe, pull out a few pieces, and then put them straight back because you’re not sure how to put them together? You’re not alone. Many women I work with—even highly intelligent, accomplished women—tell me they struggle with mixing colours and…
Especially If You’re Over 40 Every new season brings a wave of trends—some exciting, others bewildering. And if you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Should I be wearing this?” you’re not alone. A lovely reader recently asked, “How do I incorporate new trends into my existing style?” It’s a brilliant question—and one that taps into something…
In This Video 0:10 I am a 66 year old woman. My height is average 5’4” 128 lbs. Even though I wear small sizes my weight sits on my stomach and hips. I would love to wear pants with belts or tuck in my tops but the pouch I carry makes me feel very…
Petite and Stylish: Why the Problem Isn’t You—It’s the Pants You’ve done your part. You’ve browsed every petite section, tried every cut of trousers, and experimented with tops that are supposed to “flatter.” Still, nothing fits quite right. And if you’ve ever looked in the mirror and wondered, “Is it just my body?” this is…
In This Video 0.12 I am tallish (5ft 8in) and not slender (UK size 16), and I like clothes. I can describe the kind I want – but they don’t exist. Right now, I’d like a replacement for a 20 year old unlined slouchy blazer In a greeny grey (or greyish green) that goes with…
“I’ve Gained Weight—Can I Still Be Stylish?” A lovely reader wrote to me recently with something so many women whisper quietly to themselves: “I struggle because of my weight. I’m 30 kilos overweight, and even with doctors, nutritionists and gyms, nothing changes. Clothes just don’t look good.” If you’ve ever stood in front of a…
Ever look in the mirror and wonder, “Why is it so hard to find clothes that actually fit my body?” Let me tell you a secret: You’re not alone—and there’s nothing wrong with your body. I recently got a question from Donna, one of the many women who reached out for style advice. She shared:…
Have you ever put on a casual outfit and felt…well, invisible? Like you’ve gone from “put together professional” to “I gave up today”? You’re not alone. A lovely reader recently shared this exact frustration with me: “When I wear casual clothes, I look like I’m not trying. I want to look more put together.” It’s…
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In This Video 0:10 I would like to understand my colouring now that my hair has turned grey How to Adjust Your Wardrobe for Your New Grey? How to Adjust Your Wardrobe for Your New Grey? Why I Decided to Embrace My Grey Hair and Become a Silver Foxette How to Mix and Match Greys…
In This Video 0.08 Want to dress age appropriate but many woman my age dress frumpy or 10 years older. I’m 63. Many women my age don’t care how they look. How do I know if I’m dressing my age? Age Appropriate Dressing What are Age Appropriate Clothes and Colours and How to Find Them?…
In This Video 0:08 love a relaxed and natural style but most of the time it feels boring on me. I need to find the special tick to my outfits How to Embrace Your Unique Relaxed Style Colour Personality – 2. Natural – Relaxed/Casual How To Wear Jeans and a Top for Your Personality Style…
In This Video 0:13 I have trouble giving myself permission to purchase more expensive items that in the long run I will love and use more than the cheap stuff – how can I overcome this? Discovering What Works for You The Secret to Effortless Style: Discovering What Works for You What’s Holding Back Your…
A reader recently asked me a great question: “I love feminine and romantic styles of clothes, but I’m really low-maintenance. How can I incorporate these together when I feel like they’re opposites?” This is such a common concern, especially for women who are reconnecting with their style later in life. There’s a belief that…
Smart casual. Two little words that somehow manage to cause a whole lot of confusion. If you’re like Rebecca—a woman who’s intelligent, accomplished, and completely baffled by what “smart casual” actually means—you’re not alone. This is one of the most common style struggles I hear from my clients. And it’s no wonder. The term is…
