Smart casual. Two little words that somehow manage to cause a whole lot of confusion. If you’re like Rebecca—a woman who’s intelligent, accomplished, and completely baffled by what “smart casual” actually means—you’re not alone. This is one of the most common style struggles I hear from my clients. And it’s no wonder. The term is…
In This Video 0:06 I struggle knowing how to mix colours and patterns – what tips do you have? Mix Colours and Prints Which Patterns Easily Mix With Anything? Struggling with Mixed-Colour Patterns? Here’s How to Choose Right Ones for Your Colour Palette Colour Coordination: A Guide to Harmonious Outfits 6:48 How do I…
Do you ever find yourself standing in your wardrobe, wondering, Why does it feel like I have to choose between looking fun and feeling comfortable? If you’re nodding, you’re not alone—and it’s not your fault. For decades, women have been taught to prioritise either appearance or practicality. We’ve internalised the idea that style and comfort…
“A rut is a grave with the ends kicked out.” Vance Havner Let’s be honest: a style rut isn’t just about clothes. It’s about identity, confidence, and self-perception. If your wardrobe feels stuck, tired, or out of sync with the woman you are today, you’re not alone. But the good news? You can get unstuck.…
We don’t just see colours – we feel them. And surprisingly, what we call a colour can have just as much impact as the colour itself. Colour names and perception are deeply intertwined. Just like the difference between “camel” and “caramel,” the words we associate with a hue shape whether we find it appealing, wearable,…
Your wardrobe might look full, but is it truly telling your story? As we evolve – through career shifts, life changes, or inner growth – our wardrobes often get left behind, quietly clinging to past versions of ourselves. If you feel a nagging disconnect between how you look and how you feel, your wardrobe might…
Reader Question: I wonder what thoughts you have on double denim for those of us in our 60s whose age group invented and have worn the trend days in days gone by Is it something we can pull off or will we be perceived as too try hard i love denim and wear it almost…
Let’s be honest: getting dressed shouldn’t feel like a battle—and yet, for so many of us, it does. Especially when your wardrobe feels chaotic, your body has changed, and you’re short on time (and patience). The good news? Style doesn’t have to be hard. In fact, with the right knowledge and systems, it can become…
In This Video Do you have a non-model body that means finding clothes to fit and flatter is hard? You’re not alone. 0:10 I am basically underweight by 10 pounds so I have extremely skinny legs and a type 2 diabetic belly that’s always bloated, I struggle figuring out what to wear 2:13 My…
If you’ve ever stared at a wardrobe full of clothes and thought, “I have nothing to wear,” you’re not alone. The good news? You probably don’t need new clothes—you just need new eyes. Shopping your closet is one of the easiest, most budget-friendly ways to reinvigorate your style and fall back in love with what…
Have you ever stood in front of your wardrobe trying to figure out what to wear, and you hear it whispering to you, “you’re fat… you’re frumpy… you’re so unstylish”? We need to talk about wardrobe manipulation. Yes, that sneaky way your closet quietly undermines your confidence and decision-making. The kind where you’re five minutes from…
If you’re wondering how to wear classic style without looking frumpy, you’re not alone. Many women love the clean, timeless appeal of classic pieces like trench coats, blazers, and pencil skirts—but they can sometimes feel dull or outdated if not styled intentionally. And if you’re petite or fall in between standard sizing, you know how…
In This Video 0:08 I struggle with smart casual dressing and I want to have more confidence and feel good. 5:18 I find prints tricky, I’m not sure about finding my preferred shapes and colours when current trends don’t reflect them. My daughter says I should just wear solid colours and neutrals, but I…
If you’ve got a closet overflowing with clothes but still feel like you have nothing to wear, it might be time to stop over-shopping and start styling. This modern wardrobe dilemma is more common than you’d think—and it has both psychological and industry-driven roots. Let’s break down why this happens and what you can do…
How to Choose and Style a Striped Shirt Based on Your Personality Styling striped shirts by personality dressing style is a fun and expressive way to take a classic wardrobe piece and make it completely your own. Striped shirts may be timeless, but that doesn’t mean they need to look identical on everyone. By aligning…
In this Video 0:08 I’d love some help with getting my wardrobe more organised and stop buying clothes that don’t suit me – I tend to admire certain styles on others but they don’t feel like me – what’s the solution? 4:04 How can I get ready in under 15 minutes per day and…
If you’ve ever stood in front of the mirror wondering how to make a caramel-toned (or camel) jacket work with your body, lifestyle (and your flats because comfort is key to feeling stylish), you’re not alone. In fact, this was one of the questions I got in my recent 7 Steps to Style members Q&A…
As we get older, it’s common to worry about dressing ‘too young,’ but in reality, that fear can lead to playing it too safe and avoid current fashions. If you’ve ever wondered how to stop dressing too safe while still feeling like you’re not going to look like you’re too young (or feeling ridiculous),…
We often think of fashion as something superficial—merely about what we wear. But what if we saw it as a dynamic tool for lifelong learning? Your style isn’t just a reflection of who you are today; it’s an ongoing lesson in self-expression, confidence, and evolution. Every outfit is a small experiment, an opportunity to refine…
I was recently asked by one of my 7 Steps to Style program members to give some tips on how to style a chambray shirt in a more feminine, elegant way. Chambray shirts have long been a wardrobe staple—soft, breathable, and that perfect shade of relaxed blue. But let’s be honest: while they’re incredibly versatile,…
Finding clothes and shoes that fit well, feel comfortable, and align with your style can be a real challenge—especially when you have specific needs like a low heel, natural materials, or sustainable fashion. The fashion industry often caters to trends rather than real women’s bodies and preferences, making the search feel frustrating and overwhelming. If…
