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Can You Be Feminine and Low-Maintenance? Yes—Here’s How
A reader recently asked me a great question: “I love feminine and romantic styles of clothes, but I’m really low-maintenance. How can I incorporate these together when I feel like they’re opposites?” This is such a common concern, especially for women who are reconnecting with their style later in life. There’s a belief that…
Smart Casual Decoded: How to Dress with Confidence (Even When the Dress Code Is Vague)
Smart casual. Two little words that somehow manage to cause a whole lot of confusion. If you’re like Rebecca—a woman who’s intelligent, accomplished, and completely baffled by what “smart casual” actually means—you’re not alone. This is one of the most common style struggles I hear from my clients. And it’s no wonder. The term is…
How To Choose Prints That Flatter You – Not Just What’s Trending
Have you ever found yourself standing in front of a rack of bold prints, wondering, “Is this me? Or am I just being swayed by what’s in right now?” If so, you’re not alone—and you’re certainly not wrong to ask. One of our style community, recently shared this honest dilemma: “I find prints tricky. I’m…
How to Find Clothes That Feel Both Fun and Comfortable (Without Sacrificing One for the Other)
Do you ever find yourself standing in your wardrobe, wondering, Why does it feel like I have to choose between looking fun and feeling comfortable? If you’re nodding, you’re not alone—and it’s not your fault. For decades, women have been taught to prioritise either appearance or practicality. We’ve internalised the idea that style and comfort…
Double Denim in 2025 – Can You Pull Off this Trend?
Reader Question: I wonder what thoughts you have on double denim for those of us in our 60s whose age group invented and have worn the trend days in days gone by Is it something we can pull off or will we be perceived as too try hard i love denim and wear it almost…
Illusion Dressing – Even the Victorians Did It
Dressing to create an illusion around the shape of your body, is something we tend to think as a modern invention, yet even the Victorians were partial to using clothing to create illusions about their body shape to create the ideal shape of the day (an hourglass with a small waist). I found this Instagram…
How to Get Dressed in Under 15 Minutes (and Actually Feel Good in Your Clothes)
Let’s be honest: getting dressed shouldn’t feel like a battle—and yet, for so many of us, it does. Especially when your wardrobe feels chaotic, your body has changed, and you’re short on time (and patience). The good news? Style doesn’t have to be hard. In fact, with the right knowledge and systems, it can become…
Your Colour and Style Questions Answered on Video 143
In This Video Do you have a non-model body that means finding clothes to fit and flatter is hard? You’re not alone. 0:10 I am basically underweight by 10 pounds so I have extremely skinny legs and a type 2 diabetic belly that’s always bloated, I struggle figuring out what to wear 2:13 My…
Why Your Wardrobe Doesn’t Feel Like You—And What to Do About It
If you’ve ever stood in front of a wardrobe full of clothes thinking, “Why don’t I have anything to wear?” —you’re not alone. Recently, a reader emailed me and said “I’d love some help with getting my wardrobe more organized and stop buying clothes that don’t suit me. I tend to admire certain styles on…
Your Colour and Style Questions Answered on Video: 142
In This Video 0:08 when I wear casual clothes I look like I’m not trying – I want to look more put together 3:28 I need to revamp my style post double mastectomy. So my body has completely changed shape. I’m also 63 and moving into a new season of my life and need to…
Your Colour and Style Questions Answered on Video: 141
In This Video 0:08 I struggle with smart casual dressing and I want to have more confidence and feel good. 5:18 I find prints tricky, I’m not sure about finding my preferred shapes and colours when current trends don’t reflect them. My daughter says I should just wear solid colours and neutrals, but I…
Your Colour and Style Questions Answered on Video: 140
In this Video 0:08 I’d love some help with getting my wardrobe more organised and stop buying clothes that don’t suit me – I tend to admire certain styles on others but they don’t feel like me – what’s the solution? 4:04 How can I get ready in under 15 minutes per day and…
How to Style a Caramel Jacket
If you’ve ever stood in front of the mirror wondering how to make a caramel-toned (or camel) jacket work with your body, lifestyle (and your flats because comfort is key to feeling stylish), you’re not alone. In fact, this was one of the questions I got in my recent 7 Steps to Style members Q&A…
How to Style a Chambray Shirt in a Feminine Elegant Way
I was recently asked by one of my 7 Steps to Style program members to give some tips on how to style a chambray shirt in a more feminine, elegant way. Chambray shirts have long been a wardrobe staple—soft, breathable, and that perfect shade of relaxed blue. But let’s be honest: while they’re incredibly versatile,…
Your Colour and Style Questions Answered: 139
In This Video 0.07 My challenge is finding the right colours for my summer wardrobe when they aren’t current fashions 2.34 How do I incorporate my essence by John Kitchener into my style relating to my 8 shape body? When I do personality quizzes I get more Classic than what I got with Kitchener which…
Choosing Your Best Navy Blue
Navy is a colour that seems to confuse a lot of people. It’s the colour I get asked the most questions about, and I’ve written a bunch of blog posts about it in the past. But since it’s back in fashion again this season, and I was asked a question about it in my 7 Steps…
Your Colour and Style Questions Answered on Video: 138
In This Video 0.08 – The thing that holds me back from working on my style is time! Five years of being a full-time caregiver have just ended and I am trying to put my life back together. By necessity, I fell into lots of bad personal care habits and now I would like to…
How to Choose a Flattering Low Maintenance Hair Colour
Have you ever considered changing your hair colour but hesitated because you feared high maintenance, costly salon visits, or ending up with a shade that just doesn’t suit you? Choosing a flattering hair colour doesn’t have to be complicated—especially when you use your personal colour palette as a guide. Start with Your Colour…
What’s Holding Back Your Style? Take the Quiz and Find Out
Have you ever stood in front of your wardrobe feeling completely uninspired? Do you find yourself wearing the same outfits on repeat, not because you love them, but because you don’t know what else to wear? If you’ve ever wondered why style feels so much harder than it should, you’re not alone. Many women—especially those…
Not Born with Style? You Can Still Be Stylish
You will hear many stylish people tell you that you have to be born with style. Some people have it, and others just don’t (and never will). Well, if you know me (if you’ve spent any time here on the blog), you’ll know that I wasn’t born with style; I’ve just spent a year learning…