Discover how to feel more approachable in your style without dimming your bold, high-contrast look. Learn practical ways to soften your appearance using yin elements—while staying true to your essence.

How to Look Less Intimidating Without Dimming Your Light

The question came from Penny, but it’s one I hear time and time again: “I struggle with intimidation and a nonapproachable effect. I’m tall, high contrast, and have a classic, dramatic look. Lately I’ve been dressing in muted tones and low contrast to seem more approachable – but it feels less like me.” First, let…

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Free Style Ebooks and Planners

Section 1Thanks for Subscribing! To update your subscription preferences, click here. SectionSubscribe to My Weekly Newsletter Free Style Resources eBooks, Planners and Tools Who doesn’t love a freebie?  I do!  And I’m sure that you do too.  I love to share so I’m sharing a bunch of great articles, planners and resources here so that you…

How to Express Your Personality Through Your Personal Style

How to Express Your Personality Through Your Personal Style

How do you express yourself through your clothing? In this podcast with Jill Chivers of 16 Style Types, we discuss how personality influences clothing choices, and how we can use the personality dressing styles to express who we are. There are a variety of well-known personality dressing styles: Classic Relaxed/Casual/Natural Feminine/Romantic Creative/Innovative/Eclectic Dramatic/Bold Rebellious Elegant…

How to Look Stylish Yet Be Comfortable, Practical, Attractive and Interesting - defining your style - pink jacket with embellished jeans

How to Look Stylish Yet Be Comfortable, Practical, Attractive and Interesting

Today, I want to address a question from reader, who seeks guidance on combining practicality, attractiveness, and vibrancy in her outfits. She wonders how to look comfortably stylish, interesting but not crazy, and vibrant without appearing too over the top. While these goals may seem contradictory, I firmly believe that practicality, comfort, and attractiveness are…