A reader recently asked me a great question: “I love feminine and romantic styles of clothes, but I’m really low-maintenance. How can I incorporate these together when I feel like they’re opposites?” This is such a common concern, especially for women who are reconnecting with their style later in life. There’s a belief that…
Smart casual. Two little words that somehow manage to cause a whole lot of confusion. If you’re like Rebecca—a woman who’s intelligent, accomplished, and completely baffled by what “smart casual” actually means—you’re not alone. This is one of the most common style struggles I hear from my clients. And it’s no wonder. The term is…
Have you ever found yourself standing in front of a rack of bold prints, wondering, “Is this me? Or am I just being swayed by what’s in right now?” If so, you’re not alone—and you’re certainly not wrong to ask. One of our style community, recently shared this honest dilemma: “I find prints tricky. I’m…
Do you ever find yourself standing in your wardrobe, wondering, Why does it feel like I have to choose between looking fun and feeling comfortable? If you’re nodding, you’re not alone—and it’s not your fault. For decades, women have been taught to prioritise either appearance or practicality. We’ve internalised the idea that style and comfort…
Reader Question: I wonder what thoughts you have on double denim for those of us in our 60s whose age group invented and have worn the trend days in days gone by Is it something we can pull off or will we be perceived as too try hard i love denim and wear it almost…
Dressing to create an illusion around the shape of your body, is something we tend to think as a modern invention, yet even the Victorians were partial to using clothing to create illusions about their body shape to create the ideal shape of the day (an hourglass with a small waist). I found this Instagram…
Let’s be honest: getting dressed shouldn’t feel like a battle—and yet, for so many of us, it does. Especially when your wardrobe feels chaotic, your body has changed, and you’re short on time (and patience). The good news? Style doesn’t have to be hard. In fact, with the right knowledge and systems, it can become…
In This Video Do you have a non-model body that means finding clothes to fit and flatter is hard? You’re not alone. 0:10 I am basically underweight by 10 pounds so I have extremely skinny legs and a type 2 diabetic belly that’s always bloated, I struggle figuring out what to wear 2:13 My…
If you’ve ever stood in front of a wardrobe full of clothes thinking, “Why don’t I have anything to wear?” —you’re not alone. Recently, a reader emailed me and said “I’d love some help with getting my wardrobe more organized and stop buying clothes that don’t suit me. I tend to admire certain styles on…
In This Video 0:08 when I wear casual clothes I look like I’m not trying – I want to look more put together 3:28 I need to revamp my style post double mastectomy. So my body has completely changed shape. I’m also 63 and moving into a new season of my life and need to…
In this Video 0:08 I’d love some help with getting my wardrobe more organised and stop buying clothes that don’t suit me – I tend to admire certain styles on others but they don’t feel like me – what’s the solution? 4:04 How can I get ready in under 15 minutes per day and…
Finding clothes and shoes that fit well, feel comfortable, and align with your style can be a real challenge—especially when you have specific needs like a low heel, natural materials, or sustainable fashion. The fashion industry often caters to trends rather than real women’s bodies and preferences, making the search feel frustrating and overwhelming. If…
Looking for winter evening outfit ideas that feel stylish, elegant, and warm—without defaulting to black? For some it can be tricky to find winter outfits that feel as put-together as your summer wardrobe, but with a few key styling tips, you can create polished, comfortable looks that stand out in the colder months. If you…
A reader recently wrote to me and asked: “How do I look good when I’m overweight? I am menopausal and find jackets difficult to wear with long cardigans underneath, as I live in the Arctic.” First, it’s important to recognize that being overweight is not a body shape. There are many different body shapes, and…
In This Video 0.07 My challenge is finding the right colours for my summer wardrobe when they aren’t current fashions 2.34 How do I incorporate my essence by John Kitchener into my style relating to my 8 shape body? When I do personality quizzes I get more Classic than what I got with Kitchener which…
Have you ever felt that your naturally relaxed, casual style lacks the polished edge of a more “put-together” look? I know exactly how it feels to want to elevate your casual style. One of my readers wrote to me and let me know that despite loving a natural, laid-back wardrobe, she sometimes struggles with the…
In This Video 0.08 – The thing that holds me back from working on my style is time! Five years of being a full-time caregiver have just ended and I am trying to put my life back together. By necessity, I fell into lots of bad personal care habits and now I would like to…
Personal Colour Analysis has evolved dramatically since the early 1980s, when Carol Jackson’s Colour Me Beautiful introduced the four-season model to the world. While it was a groundbreaking start, many found that the limited four-season approach didn’t capture the full spectrum of our diverse complexions. In this system, the Summer season is characterised by cool,…
“I struggle with simplifying my wardrobe. I know what I look good in, but I want to try other styles, so I buy them and never wear them. I end up with a wardrobe full of clothes but nothing to wear. I get overwhelmed and donate hardly-worn clothes, which breaks my heart because it’s so…
I hear you when you say that picking shoes to wear with your outfits can be tricky—especially when you just want to keep your feet warm and comfy in the cooler months! Here’s a guide to help you select the best shoes based on your outfit, body proportions, and comfort needs. 1. Level of Refinement…
Do you ever find yourself drawn to bold, eye-catching pieces, only to struggle with how to make them work together in an outfit? You’re not alone! Many of us love a statement piece—what I like to call a “hero” piece—but the question remains: how to style statement pieces in a way that feels cohesive? The…
