Who do You Want to Be?

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Who do you want to beThe next question in our search for your signature style is:

  1. Who do you want to be?
  2. Who are you?
  3. How do you want to be perceived by others?
  4. What are your personality traits that are important for you for others to pick up about you?

Here are a list of words to inspire you – pick up to 5 that you feel represent you at work or at play (you may have different words for the different aspects of your life:

  • Contemporary
  • Constructive
  • Modern
  • Tailored
  • Comfortable
  • Current
  • Bohemian
  • Creative
  • Harmonious
  • Composed
  • Innovative
  • Effortless
  • Comfortable
  • Elegant
  • Cultured
  • Graceful
  • Practical
  • Natural
  • Relaxed
  • Understated
  • Cosmopolitan
  • Feminine
  • Sensual
  • Organic
  • Sophisticated
  • Classic
  • Timeless
  • Dramatic
  • Responsible
  • Professional
  • Successful
  • Intellectual
  • Thoughtful
  • Approachable
  • Friendly
  • Fun
  • Eclectic
  • Stylish
  • Exotic
  • Sexy
  • Respectable
  • Powerful
  • Understated
  • Pretty
  • Whimsical
  • Vibrant
  • Unexpected
  • Edgy
  • Mysterious
  • Enigmatic
  • Intriguing
  • Polished
  • Warm
  • Dynamic
  • Exciting
  • Understated

Now take those words and run them by your wardrobe, your friends and family.  Do they have other words that maybe this list has inspired you to write down?

What do you want to achieve in your life?  Which words in the list relate to your life and career goals?

You may find that your current style isn’t quite where you want it to be, but knowing how you want to be perceived can help you move towards your goals and aspirations as you tweak it to represent who you are and what you want to be.

Share your style words here in the comments – if you have pics and would like feedback from other readers please leave weblinks too!

 

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16 Comments

  • Ecletic, classic, creative, practical, feminine

    Practical because I’m a mother and work in a lab so what I wear needs to be machine washable, confirm to OSHA regulations and be something I’m prepared to lose.

    I’m creative because I started creating my own pieces like my galaxy jacket and my purpleish pink jean jacket I’m currently wearing.

    Eclectic because I have everything from a classic pair of black pumps to bright red hightop sneaker wedges with a floral pattern on the tounge. My tops/bottoms also have a wide range between classic and “odd” as my DH would call it.

    Feminine because I do enjoy wearing skirts/sundress whenever I can and being “girly” when given the opportunity.

  • Relaxed, harmonious, warm, eclectic – I think these describe my style now that I have retired and can wear clothes that I feel comfortable in rather than those that are suitable for the office. I have given four words only as I would like to add “stylish”, but that’s what I’m aiming for and not necessarily where I am now!

    I would appreciate comments, so here is a link to my blog showing one of my typical outfits: http://over60andoverhere.blogspot.com.es/2013/04/do-you-belong-to-fashion-tribe.html

    I wear trousers most of the time, though I do enjoy wearing skirts and dresses for going out and especially in the summer months.

    • Sue

      I like your in monochromatic best in the April style challenge. I am not sure your coloring lends itself to too much contrast, but certainly a lot of color. I’d say relaxed, eclectic, and practical for you.

    • Sue

      I like your in monochromatic best in the April style challenge. I am not sure your coloring lends itself to too much contrast, but certainly lots of color makes you look fresh. I’d say relaxed, eclectic, and practical for you.

      • Robin, thanks for your helpful reply. I do have a tendency to want to add colour – so, though I liked my monochromatic outfit, I really wanted to wear red shoes or add a red bracelet to it! I do think that dark colours near my face don’t flatter me as much as lighter shades, and a dramatic look isn’t really me, whereas Imogen looks stunning! My advanced years may also have something to do with it!

        • Sue

          As Imogen recently illustrated in a post (that finally made it sink in for me) monochromatic can mean colorful: just shades of the same color. I’m like you in that I can wear great colors but just not lots of contrast. So your April challenge photo where you were wearing brighter blue near your face but darker blue pants was a great look for you. So I’d say wear yellow shirts but beige or light brown pants. That kind of thing. I’ve also learned from Imogen that as we age (and I’m right behind you on age!) our colors mellow a bit so I’m wearing slightly muted colors and it feels right.

          • Robin, I’m interested in what you say about avoiding lots of contrast. I wore a bright green top and bright pink jeans in one of my posts (complementary colours) so did that work (two different shades but the same depth) or might it have been better with softer shades of pink and green or, possibly even better, with two shades of green or two shades of pink? !

            This type of contrast would have been good for me about 20 years ago as my hair is naturally a very dark brown, but living in Spain has made my hair a lot lighter! I am obviously having to change my wardrobe to allow for this.

            Imogen, sorry to hijack your post, but I suspect that other “more mature” readers may find this helpful. Have you done any posts about good colour combinations for over 60s or over 50s whose colouring is changing?

  • I see myself as a Kibbe soft classic, so who I WANT to be is: semi-tailored, powerful, effortless, composed. What I am is frumpy and trying too hard. I know theoretically how to put it all together but once it’s together it seems all wrong. Photos are helping me see what looking in the mirror doesn’t reveal.

  • Hello, Imogen. Congratulations for your blog. I think my looks talk about a woman approachable and natural. I like this way but I want to look more professional and comfident too. Is it possible?

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