You brought it home with excitement, pictured all the ways you’d wear it, and then… it sat there. Untouched. We’ve all done it. That unworn piece hanging in your wardrobe isn’t proof you lack style discipline – it’s proof of a deeper disconnect. Understanding why you never wear that item you loved is the first…
For many women, colour analysis can feel like a never-ending puzzle. You might have been told you’re a “Spring,” only to be re-draped as an “Autumn” later. You try on those palettes, but somehow they still don’t feel right. You look washed out in some hues, overwhelmed by others, and the result is confusion rather…
Layering isn’t just for cold climates – it’s the secret weapon of a truly versatile wardrobe. You may need to layer in summer when you work in an air-conditioned environment, which is unrelated to the outside temperature. Or how about in winter, when you go from freezing cold outside to overheated inside! When you know…
It’s absolutely possible to revisit playful trends as a wise woman without looking like you’re clinging to your twenties (or teens). In fact, embracing elements of fun in your outfits – whether that’s a touch of whimsy, a nostalgic accessory, or a pop of bold colour – can be an expression of confidence, not immaturity.…
In This Video 0:08 I’ve just spent yesterday sorting & curating my wardrobe. I would like to be able to mix & match my clothes. I love wearing autumn colours & find I have too much black (believing it would make me look slimmer). How do I weed the black out of my wardrobe and…
Understanding How Your Archetypes Influence Your Style Have you ever stared into your wardrobe and thought, “Who even am I anymore?” You’re not alone. That thought comes up far more often than you might imagine, not just from women going through style ruts or body changes, but from psychologists, coaches, and type practitioners. Because style…
You don’t need a brand-new wardrobe to look and feel more polished. You don’t even need to spend a fortune. In fact, learning to elevate your outfit is less about labels and more about intention. Style polish comes from the little things, the subtle shifts that create a big impact. When you feel elevated in…
How to Find Clothes That Fit Your Body (Without the Frustration) If you’ve ever stood in a change room surrounded by rejected piles of clothes, you are not alone. Most women over 40 tell me they feel frustrated trying to find garments that fit well and flatter their shape. The good news? It’s not your…
Let’s be honest. Sewing can sometimes feel like it’s just you, your fabric, and the seam ripper. That’s why I’m so excited about Together We Stitch: The Studio Sessions. For four days, your sewing room expands to include a global community—sharing ideas, cheering you on, and passing along those “why didn’t I try this sooner?”…
How to Confidently Mix Colours and Patterns Without the Overwhelm Do you ever open your wardrobe, pull out a few pieces, and then put them straight back because you’re not sure how to put them together? You’re not alone. Many women I work with—even highly intelligent, accomplished women—tell me they struggle with mixing colours and…
Especially If You’re Over 40 Every new season brings a wave of trends—some exciting, others bewildering. And if you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Should I be wearing this?” you’re not alone. A lovely reader recently asked, “How do I incorporate new trends into my existing style?” It’s a brilliant question—and one that taps into something…
We often think of personal style as something reserved for special occasions — a polished outfit for work, a bold look for a party. But the truth is, style rituals for self-expression belong in your everyday life. Every morning, you get the chance to tell the world who you are through your clothes. And when…
Too often, we treat style like a simple puzzle, something that, if we could just find the right missing piece, would finally be “done.” That perfect dress, the right pair of shoes, the ultimate capsule wardrobe. Have you tried buying that “must-have garment” suggested by an influencer or fashion magazine to discover that it wasn’t…
We often think of buttons as purely functional. But in personal style, especially when dressing with intention, every detail matters – including your buttons. They’re small, yes, but buttons are a surprisingly effective way to express your style personality and reinforce the story your outfit tells the world.
If you’ve ever bought something that looked amazing in the store… only to find it sitting in your wardrobe unworn, you’re not alone. In fact, research shows most of us only wear about 10-20% of our clothes 80% of the time. The rest? Guilt, clutter, and wasted money. But it doesn’t have to be that…
Many women tell me that they’re hesitant about adding colour to an outfit, sticking with all neutrals because it feels safer, and they’re unsure how to mix colours together successfully, so they avoid it altogether. In honour and memory of one of our brilliant 7 Steps to Style members, Lynne, who sadly lost her battle…
“I’ve Gained Weight—Can I Still Be Stylish?” A lovely reader wrote to me recently with something so many women whisper quietly to themselves: “I struggle because of my weight. I’m 30 kilos overweight, and even with doctors, nutritionists and gyms, nothing changes. Clothes just don’t look good.” If you’ve ever stood in front of a…
The Met Gala is often described as “fashion’s biggest night out”, and rightly so. Held annually at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York each May in conjunction with Vogue magazine, it’s a fundraising gala for the museum’s Costume Institute. Each year, celebrities arrive dressed to the theme of the exhibit, sometimes dramatically, sometimes…
Ever stood in front of your wardrobe, heart racing, mind spinning, wondering why something as simple as getting dressed feels so… impossible? You’re not alone. Style overwhelm is real and it doesn’t mean you’re bad at fashion. It means your brain is trying to make sense of too many variables at once: body changes, lifestyle…
Do you have any clothes in your wardrobe that you don’t wear? Unless you’ve just done a cull and a wardrobe audit, the answer is most likely YES! You are completely normal if this is you because there are so many tricks and techniques retailers use to get you to buy, which is why I’m…
Seventeen years ago, this August 18th, I sat down at my computer, heart pounding, and pressed “publish” on my very first Inside Out Style Blog post. I had no idea that moment would spark a journey reaching millions of women worldwide, each seeking the same thing: clarity, confidence, and the courage to be seen as…
