Have you ever stood in front of your wardrobe and realised… It’s a sea of black? Black is everywhere. It’s in every store, every online catalogue, and likely, every corner of your closet. But here’s the question we need to ask: Why? Why do so many intelligent, capable women default to wearing black, even when…
Thrifting can be a great way of finding affordable, good-quality clothing, but there are some key features to look for when choosing what to purchase from a thrift store. There are many reasons to purchase your clothing secondhand, apart from just cost: a more sustainable planet is just one of them, as the clothes do…
In This Video 0:13 I have trouble giving myself permission to purchase more expensive items that in the long run I will love and use more than the cheap stuff – how can I overcome this? Discovering What Works for You The Secret to Effortless Style: Discovering What Works for You What’s Holding Back Your…
A reader recently asked me a great question: “I love feminine and romantic styles of clothes, but I’m really low-maintenance. How can I incorporate these together when I feel like they’re opposites?” This is such a common concern, especially for women who are reconnecting with their style later in life. There’s a belief that…
Smart casual. Two little words that somehow manage to cause a whole lot of confusion. If you’re like Rebecca—a woman who’s intelligent, accomplished, and completely baffled by what “smart casual” actually means—you’re not alone. This is one of the most common style struggles I hear from my clients. And it’s no wonder. The term is…
Have you ever found yourself standing in front of a rack of bold prints, wondering, “Is this me? Or am I just being swayed by what’s in right now?” If so, you’re not alone—and you’re certainly not wrong to ask. One of our style community, recently shared this honest dilemma: “I find prints tricky. I’m…
Do you ever find yourself standing in your wardrobe, wondering, Why does it feel like I have to choose between looking fun and feeling comfortable? If you’re nodding, you’re not alone—and it’s not your fault. For decades, women have been taught to prioritise either appearance or practicality. We’ve internalised the idea that style and comfort…
“A rut is a grave with the ends kicked out.” Vance Havner Let’s be honest: a style rut isn’t just about clothes. It’s about identity, confidence, and self-perception. If your wardrobe feels stuck, tired, or out of sync with the woman you are today, you’re not alone. But the good news? You can get unstuck.…
In This Video 0.08 Finding the new confidence to wear what I like and feel right wearing and not to try tone it down so I just blend in – how do I create interesting outfits and not keep wearing the same things together? Where Does Confidence in Appearance Come From? How Your Clothes Impact…
Your wardrobe might look full, but is it truly telling your story? As we evolve – through career shifts, life changes, or inner growth – our wardrobes often get left behind, quietly clinging to past versions of ourselves. If you feel a nagging disconnect between how you look and how you feel, your wardrobe might…
Reader Question: I wonder what thoughts you have on double denim for those of us in our 60s whose age group invented and have worn the trend days in days gone by Is it something we can pull off or will we be perceived as too try hard i love denim and wear it almost…
In This Video 0.08 My weight. I am 30 kilos overweight and even under Drs and nutritionists and gyms, nothing changes. Clothes just don’t look good. Body Image and Your Style 11 Ways to Improve Your Body Image, Self-Acceptance and Your Style The Myth of the ‘Ideal Weight’: Don’t Wait to Look Stylish What’s…
Dressing to create an illusion around the shape of your body, is something we tend to think as a modern invention, yet even the Victorians were partial to using clothing to create illusions about their body shape to create the ideal shape of the day (an hourglass with a small waist). I found this Instagram…
Let’s be honest: getting dressed shouldn’t feel like a battle—and yet, for so many of us, it does. Especially when your wardrobe feels chaotic, your body has changed, and you’re short on time (and patience). The good news? Style doesn’t have to be hard. In fact, with the right knowledge and systems, it can become…
In This Video Do you have a non-model body that means finding clothes to fit and flatter is hard? You’re not alone. 0:10 I am basically underweight by 10 pounds so I have extremely skinny legs and a type 2 diabetic belly that’s always bloated, I struggle figuring out what to wear 2:13 My…
If you’ve ever stood in front of a wardrobe full of clothes thinking, “Why don’t I have anything to wear?” —you’re not alone. Recently, a reader emailed me and said “I’d love some help with getting my wardrobe more organized and stop buying clothes that don’t suit me. I tend to admire certain styles on…
If you’ve ever stared at a wardrobe full of clothes and thought, “I have nothing to wear,” you’re not alone. The good news? You probably don’t need new clothes—you just need new eyes. Shopping your closet is one of the easiest, most budget-friendly ways to reinvigorate your style and fall back in love with what…
In This Video 0:08 when I wear casual clothes I look like I’m not trying – I want to look more put together 3:28 I need to revamp my style post double mastectomy. So my body has completely changed shape. I’m also 63 and moving into a new season of my life and need to…
Have you ever stood in front of your wardrobe trying to figure out what to wear, and you hear it whispering to you, “you’re fat… you’re frumpy… you’re so unstylish”? We need to talk about wardrobe manipulation. Yes, that sneaky way your closet quietly undermines your confidence and decision-making. The kind where you’re five minutes from…
If you’re wondering how to wear classic style without looking frumpy, you’re not alone. Many women love the clean, timeless appeal of classic pieces like trench coats, blazers, and pencil skirts—but they can sometimes feel dull or outdated if not styled intentionally. And if you’re petite or fall in between standard sizing, you know how…
In This Video 0:08 I struggle with smart casual dressing and I want to have more confidence and feel good. 5:18 I find prints tricky, I’m not sure about finding my preferred shapes and colours when current trends don’t reflect them. My daughter says I should just wear solid colours and neutrals, but I…
