How to Stay True to Your Flamboyant Style When You’re a Busy Mom One of my readers asked a powerful question that so many women quietly wrestle with: “How do I balance my natural flamboyance with the practicalities of being a mom of four?” Here’s the truth: no rule says motherhood and style expression are…
It’s absolutely possible to revisit playful trends as a wise woman without looking like you’re clinging to your twenties (or teens). In fact, embracing elements of fun in your outfits – whether that’s a touch of whimsy, a nostalgic accessory, or a pop of bold colour – can be an expression of confidence, not immaturity.…
How to Organise Your Wardrobe So the Perfect Outfit Is Always Within Reach A lovely reader asked, “How can I organise my closet so the perfect outfit is always at my fingertips?” Closets are fascinating because how you organise yours depends so much on your personal organising style. But there are a few principles…
In This Video 0:08 I’ve just spent yesterday sorting & curating my wardrobe. I would like to be able to mix & match my clothes. I love wearing autumn colours & find I have too much black (believing it would make me look slimmer). How do I weed the black out of my wardrobe and…
One of the biggest shifts that happens as you mature and really get to know yourself is moving from trying to follow fashion rules to learning how to read your own body. When you understand what works for your unique proportions, you stop second-guessing yourself and start dressing with quiet confidence. Kate recently asked me,…
How to Stop Second-Guessing Your Style Purchases (And Give Yourself Permission to Buy the Good Stuff) Have you ever stood in a store, holding something beautiful, but put it back because it felt too expensive or too risky? Michelle did. In fact, she wrote in with a question I hear all the time: “I have…
Small holes appear on knitwear. Particularly around the waist and also on sleeve cuffs? Now sometimes it is moths in your wardrobe, but frequently it’s because of wear and tear. Often, jeans buttons and zips may sometimes catch the fabric and create a hole. Sadly, it’s more common these days as fabrics have become thinner…
You don’t need a brand-new wardrobe to look and feel more polished. You don’t even need to spend a fortune. In fact, learning to elevate your outfit is less about labels and more about intention. Style polish comes from the little things, the subtle shifts that create a big impact. When you feel elevated in…
Transitioning from Corporate to Smart-Casual Style in Retirement When you’ve spent years dressing for meetings, presentations and professional credibility, retiring or pivoting into a new season of life can leave you staring at your wardrobe wondering: “What do I do with all these tailored jackets and structured dresses now?” You’re not alone. Many women I…
There’s a moment many of us know well: standing in front of the mirror, already tired, maybe even sad, and feeling like whatever we throw on our body won’t help us feel any better. If anything, it might make things worse. Donna asked a powerful question recently:“What are some tips to look stylish on days…
How to Find Clothes That Fit Your Body (Without the Frustration) If you’ve ever stood in a change room surrounded by rejected piles of clothes, you are not alone. Most women over 40 tell me they feel frustrated trying to find garments that fit well and flatter their shape. The good news? It’s not your…
Let’s be honest. Sewing can sometimes feel like it’s just you, your fabric, and the seam ripper. That’s why I’m so excited about Together We Stitch: The Studio Sessions. For four days, your sewing room expands to include a global community—sharing ideas, cheering you on, and passing along those “why didn’t I try this sooner?”…
How to Confidently Mix Colours and Patterns Without the Overwhelm Do you ever open your wardrobe, pull out a few pieces, and then put them straight back because you’re not sure how to put them together? You’re not alone. Many women I work with—even highly intelligent, accomplished women—tell me they struggle with mixing colours and…
Especially If You’re Over 40 Every new season brings a wave of trends—some exciting, others bewildering. And if you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Should I be wearing this?” you’re not alone. A lovely reader recently asked, “How do I incorporate new trends into my existing style?” It’s a brilliant question—and one that taps into something…
We often think of personal style as something reserved for special occasions — a polished outfit for work, a bold look for a party. But the truth is, style rituals for self-expression belong in your everyday life. Every morning, you get the chance to tell the world who you are through your clothes. And when…
Too often, we treat style like a simple puzzle, something that, if we could just find the right missing piece, would finally be “done.” That perfect dress, the right pair of shoes, the ultimate capsule wardrobe. Have you tried buying that “must-have garment” suggested by an influencer or fashion magazine to discover that it wasn’t…
We often think of buttons as purely functional. But in personal style, especially when dressing with intention, every detail matters – including your buttons. They’re small, yes, but buttons are a surprisingly effective way to express your style personality and reinforce the story your outfit tells the world. Buttons are one way you can add…
If you’ve ever bought something that looked amazing in the store… only to find it sitting in your wardrobe unworn, you’re not alone. In fact, research shows most of us only wear about 10-20% of our clothes 80% of the time. The rest? Guilt, clutter, and wasted money. But it doesn’t have to be that…
In This Video 0:10 I am a 66 year old woman. My height is average 5’4” 128 lbs. Even though I wear small sizes my weight sits on my stomach and hips. I would love to wear pants with belts or tuck in my tops but the pouch I carry makes me feel very…
Petite and Stylish: Why the Problem Isn’t You—It’s the Pants You’ve done your part. You’ve browsed every petite section, tried every cut of trousers, and experimented with tops that are supposed to “flatter.” Still, nothing fits quite right. And if you’ve ever looked in the mirror and wondered, “Is it just my body?” this is…
In This Video 0.12 I am tallish (5ft 8in) and not slender (UK size 16), and I like clothes. I can describe the kind I want – but they don’t exist. Right now, I’d like a replacement for a 20 year old unlined slouchy blazer In a greeny grey (or greyish green) that goes with…
