What kind of handbag to choose for your body- is there a relationship between body shape and suitable handbag shapes besides size?
How To Choose a Handbag to Flatter Your Body and Style
Purpose and Practicality of the Handbag
Is it an everyday handbag that you’re after? How much stuff do you need to carry in it? Do you want it to go with every outfit or do you change bags a bit depending on what you’re wearing and doing?
Understanding the purpose of your bag and how you’ll use it is as important as the physical stuff I’m sharing here too.
How easy is it to get your things in and out of the bag? Is it a big black hole or has it got additional pockets inside to use?
Look at your favourite bag to date and notice its dimensions and features – outer pockets, inner pockets all those kinds of things can matter. I personally prefer a bag that has a zip up pocket on each side of the lining, but no additional dividers inside the bag (but I know others differ from this).
How do you like to carry your bags? On your shoulder? Cross-body? Backpack? Crook of your elbow? In your hand?
Again another important factor as this will limit the styles of bags you enjoy wearing.
Here are some more tips on where to carry your handbag.
How wide is the bag? If you like to wear it under your arm – a wide bag or tote can be uncomfortable, whilst a slimmer or narrower bag may be a better fit.
Scale of the Handbag
This relates to your overall body scale. If you’re petite or shorter, a small to medium size bag is best. If you are medium then you can wear all scales reasonably well. If you are tall or larger scale, then a medium or larger scale bag is best.
You can find out more about choosing the right scale bags here.
Body Shape and Handbag Choice
When thinking about what style of bag to choose, the easy way to figure out what is more flattering for your body, is to look at your body shape (not sure – take my free body shape calculator quiz here) and think about where you don’t want to add additional width, and look for a bag that sits at a different height to that). For example:
- A shapes, X shapes, 8 Shapes : best: bag worn over shoulder and underarm (short straps), worst: long shoulder strap and bag sits at hips
- V shapes: best: long shoulder strap, cross body, bag sits around hip height, worst: short strap worn just underarm
- H shape, O shape: best: short strap under the arm, or backpack, worst: bag that sits at your waist
- I shape: no particular recommendations
Personality and Handbag Choice
Your personality will influence your choices. Those with a more Classic personality style may look for a more structured bag and one that is held in the hand or at the elbow.
The more Relaxed personality style will go for hands-free options such as cross-body and backpacks.
Dramatic personality styles will upscale their bags – go larger in size than their body demands.
Creative personality style will look for something more quirky that expresses their uniqueness.
Feminine personality style will go for something smaller and more delicate and may be carried under the arm or crook of the elbow.
Elegant Chic personality style like the Feminine will go for tote or crook of the arm styles, and like the Dramatic may go for larger-scale options
Rebellious personality style will go for backpacks or cross-body (or anything they want).
Choosing the Colour of Your Handbag
There is no one right answer to this, but if you only want one main handbag then I’d choose a neutral that is related to your hair colour (Black hair = black handbag, red hair = cognac or tan handbag, blonde hair = light beige handbag, grey hair = grey handbag etc.) This is because the colour of the handbag will always relate to something in your outfit (your hair).
Do you wear a dominant colour? For me, as I wear a lot of blue, I often use a blue handbag as it relates to colours in many of my outfits!
You can see there are so many options and choices to decide between when choosing your handbags!
Do you have a favourite colour or style of handbag?
I love tote bags as they fit everything I daily carry and have room for extras. My favorite bag is The Teacher Tote. I love the five built-in pen/pencil holders (I carry three mechanical pencils and two pens for paperwork), pouches, loose paper file, zippered and padded laptop pocket (I sometimes carry mine but mostly I carry a tablet or two and my Kindle e-reader; I only have a case for my video gaming system), insulated food pocket (it’s meant to transfer lunch to work fridge and for longer storage, they recommend adding an ice pack), two deep beverage/umbrella holders at the sides (I often carry a drink for myself and one for my son Daniel), key clip on the side (I don’t actually keep my keys there but it is great for knowing which beverage is mine if we have the same drink and bottle), and front zippered cell phone pocket (I keep my cell phone, keys, lip balm, and sometimes my anti-motion sickness inhaler for times I may experience it). I also carry a Staples Better Binder in the 3-inch size, my wallet, a thin case for thin things, another case for personal care items (menstrual cup, hair ties, pop-up brush, tweezers, nail clippers, hair scissors, motion sickness remedies), a small photo album, my glasses, and Nintendo 2DS case. When I go out with others sometimes they ask me to carry their things in it as well. I’m a V shape with a proportionally too large bust and the top is underneath my arms but the bottom does go down to my narrow hips. I have it in Navy and Olive. Dark blue has always been my favorite color. Light to olive green reminds me of my deceased younger son Thomas’ eye color. I use the Olive during the Spring/Summer and the Navy during the Fall/Winter. I wear a lot of blue and green.
This is a good overview! Being petite I have to be careful with large bags – if they are too structured they can make me look really tiny, haha! But I still do have some very large bags in my collection – I am so a handbag person more than a shoe person and have so many different bags. I find shoulder bags harder to wear with the kids, as it’s too easy for a shoulder bag to slip off or swing round and hit a poor unsuspecting toddler sometimes, ha! So crossbodies are my main go-to lately 🙂
Hope you had a great weekend 🙂 We made the most of the warm spring days and went to a bunch of parties!
YOu are lucky that you can go out! We are going to be in lockdown til November or longer I think! Yes practicality so important with handbags!
Nice to hear Hunny, thanks for sharing on the link up. Jacqui x
I normally wear a tote, but sometimes a small one on the shoulder. My favourite style is a structured bag at the elbow.