Do you prefer to stand out from the crowd or the people around you (where you work, live) with your style, or do you prefer to blend in and not be so noticeable as you prefer not to get any comments or attract attention?
This video subject was inspired by a reader question who asked about how to feel comfortable when their personal style ideal is very different from those around them. It’s an interesting topic so Jill Chivers of 16 Style Types and I decided to have a chat about it in this video.
Which do you prefer to do? Stand out or blend in?
It’s important to remember that there is no right or wrong. And in many ways, what people notice is difference. If you feel like you want to dress more stylishly than the “norm” in your area, you are likely to attract comment, but I can tell you that if you consistently keep wearing your new style of clothes, people stop commenting as it becomes your new normal.