Hiding Behind Blandness

The other day I was having a conversation with my very talented dressmaker/designer/illustrator friend Alfia (who made my wedding dress) and we were talking about how hard it is for women ‘of a certain age’ to find interesting, flattering and non-frumpy clothing if you’re not someone who shops regularly or widely (and many women over…

The Value of Having Go-To Outfits and Your Own Outfit Formula for Speedy Stylish Dressing

We make an average of 35,000 decisions a day. Our brain’s daily decision-making power is finite, meaning the more decisions we make, the harder it becomes to make another one. Wearing the same thing repeatedly saves your decision-making power. I’ve found my mind is sharper throughout the day when it’s not bogged down in the morning trying to…

What to do on your next date? Here are 50 fabulous date ideas to try

50+ Fun Date Ideas

Most of us know that keeping any relationship alive requires time spent together, focussing on your partner, without the distractions of work, home, chores and family getting in the way.  This is why getting out on a date with your partner (either old or new) is an important thing to do.  But so often we…